Have you ever heard yourself or others say comments like these…
“I’ve got this to do and then this and then see the kids…..and didn’t make it to the gym”
“I’ve been so busy at work recently that it’s been impossible…”
“I had such a bad day I just wanted to sit down and never did my workout”
“I haven’t had time to prepare anything so just wanted to get a pizza”
“I’m too busy to train”
…. and a number of others that are pretty similar all adding up to the fact that you are very busy.
In the past with actual clients I’ve had pretty similar conversations so not just with people that haven’t decided to make any changes to help lose 10lbs or drop a clothes size or to reduce their back pain but from people that have signed up and decided to make the change for the better and started to invest in their health. I actually even had one consultation request earlier this year who really wanted to lose weight but was really busy and didn’t think that she had the time. The way her life was planned she actually didn’t and after requesting a consultation never actually got round with the best intentions that she had to actually take it. That was a first!
First off I’m not knocking the fact that there are other parts of your life like your family and career that are just as important (let’s sidestep for now the belief that these things will also improve when your health has improved but as you ignore nothing seems to improve, sound about right!).
But what I would put forward to you is that there is a clear difference between things outside of your control occurring (once in a while) and being busy but not having greater time management skills that allow you to cope better and achieve more.

With better time management I have noticed that it is possible to get more things done, waste less time (which you will be doing) and having time to get to those goals that you want to.
This isn’t the ramblings of a personal trainer who thinks we should all make time to workout and not understand the lifestyles of poeple these days as I am one of those people just like you. Trust me - I have as little time as any to train and eat right if I didn’t want to.
As someone with their own business I have a number of hats on each day whether it be the trainer/coach, customer service, sales and marketing and I.T. amongst others in addition to being the manager of any of these tasks that require delegation. On top of that I’ll have my own lifestyle which will then include maintaining and at some times with the appropriate goals improving components of my health and fitness while also balancing with my home life with my girlfriend and other circles.

Sure there will be times of a week, month and year when certain things are a higher priority than others but I only know that because I have managed it accordingly beforehand to understand what it is that will take a higher priority so if you’re real honest about wanting to get in shape and finding that you’re “too busy” and making excuses start looking at ways that you can manage the time better.
Plan your day out the night before, what you are going to be doing and when unless events outside your control come to light.
Put your food together the night before - people that blame busy circumstances always seem to have time to sit watching Eastenders etc for an hour when they could be taking 15 minutes to prepare food that will give them energy and substance and save the pennies spent on crap sandwiches and pizza slices.
Review your day each night - What didn’t you achieve and be honest as to why. I’ve never met a person yet who has these events outside their control on a daily basis happen. This is not the time for logical reasoning. When checking do you only have excuses instead of a proper reason.
Get yourself a Personal Trainer or join a Bootcamp or find another source of information and a plan of action to follow for your exercise regime. A lack of knowledge is a convenient truth to tell yourself that there is not time but armed with the right knowledge and expertise you will find out that the time required to get to your goals is far less than you imagined. The inconvenient truth is that you would perhaps rather tell yourself the timing is not right. Being accountable to someone else may also be what you need. In the event that you come up with excuses rather than reasons, a good coach is going to know the difference and be able to help you manage better. (As a side note one of my clients has lost 20lbs using routines that last 20 minutes a day. Have you got that sort of time and ambition).
If something so personal is not what you can comprehend or afford look over the internet. Some good sources of information on the Internet that you can download and/or use at home are Turbulence Training and Precision Nutrition but just do a search and find out for yourself (”fat loss ebook”, fat loss program). There is also a lot of free information out there these days on sites like Youtube.
Stop wasting time or at least be honest and don’t complain about your shape, size and health. It’s one or the other. How much time do you actually waste each day? Use a day planner to check it out over a few days that helps you check your day and see wasted time. There’s a difference between having a rest break and having an hour 2-3 times a day watching TV, being in a meeting that has no value and sending emails throughout the day (and being on Twitter and Facebook!).

Planning requires some focus as well. Those clients I mentioned that to be fair have identified (with my help of course) that they are making excuses and need better time management are also the ones that have yet to complete proper goal achievement principles. That’s not a coincidence! Goals give you focus that require planning and action, they don’t just happen on their own and good drills will highlight issues with your planning and ability to organise effectively. Another product I recommend that covers this subject amazingly well is The Magic Hundred by one of my mentors Dax Moy, one of the experts in goal achievement and is a great program in keeping you motivated as well.
The bottom line is that you are not one of the unfortunates that has zero time to improve each by week and may well be making excuses or be intimidated into accepting not to try. Whatever your reason, you’re just the same as me and thousands of others that feel like their lives are moving at the speed of light with no time to react but all you need is a bit of planning and the acknowledgement that you are always willing to learn more.
I hope you make the change or at least admit that you don’t care in which case don’t moan and certainly don’t call me.
Mike





























